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Statement of Anti-Discrimination and Land Acknowledgment

As a psychotherapist that works with families from all ethnic and racial backgrounds as well as other marginalized groups, I want to affirm that I stand with our Black community and families of color, as well as LGBTQ+ people.

Through my work and life, I commit to doing my part to bring awareness to and dismantle systemic racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia, as well as other forms of discrimination and othering. As a straight, white cisgender woman, I recognize that I have been the recipient of unacknowledged and unearned privilege. I explicitly and publicly affirm my identity as an ally and commit to doing my own work to acknowledge and address racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia when I encounter them.

I recognize that discrimination also significantly affects the mental health and well-being of people of different faiths, those with disabilities, those with mental illness, and those who face weight stigma. In my life and in my psychotherapy practice, I am committed to addressing the impacts of discrimination with my clients and to taking a social-justice-oriented approach.

My home and office are on land formerly occupied by the Saklan tribe of the Bay Miwok people. I acknowledge that I live and work on stolen land and commit to continue to learn about and advocate for social justice for native people.

The Mind/Body Connection in Chronic Pain

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Pain and other chronic symptoms (such as IBS, vertigo or bladder issues) tends to overshadow everything else in our lives. Pain and discomfort creates fear, and the two can become the focus, such that everything else in our lives fades to the background.

As we retreat from pleasurable activities, it is not surprising that depression and anxiety can follow. In fact, most chronic pain and symptom sufferers also suffer from depression or an anxiety disorder as well.

However, it can often be hard to know whether the psychological or physiological issues came first. Many chronic sufferers have a history of perfectionistic or people-pleasing tendencies that are also risk factors for depression and anxiety. And many pain and symptom sufferers experience multiple conditions that are commonly related to stress: digestive issues (IBS, Crohn’s, ulcers), migraine or tension headaches, fibromyalgia, bladder or pelvic pain issues, back or neck pain, hip, knee, shoulder or wrist pain, as well as anxiety or depression.

There is quite a lot of evidence that even pain that appears to have a physical cause can in fact be attributed to emotional factors. This was my experience. Years ago, I had chronic tendinitis in my wrists that was attributed to excessive keyboarding. I experienced inflammation and very real pain associated with using my hands to keyboard, garden, or even cook. I was treated by chiropractors, physical therapists, massage therapists and acupuncturists. I studied Alexander Technique and took Feldenkrais classes. Nothing helped much, or for long. 

I had to severely restrict my activities to avoid pain. I got voice-recognition software, an ergonomic workstation, regularly wore splints on both wrists, curtailed activities such as knitting and gardening, never bore weight on my hands, and still had debilitating pain on a regular basis for over two years.

Then I came across an interesting book written by a doctor of rehabilitative medicine, John Sarno. In his work with people who had undergone back surgery, he discovered that there was very little relationship between the severity of the objective problem (a bulging disc, arthritic vertebra, scoliosis, etc.) and the level of pain experienced. And he noted that many other people who had the same conditions, as shown on their x-rays and MRIs, experienced no pain.

Dr. Sarno’s book, Healing Back Pain, addresses the psychological factors that produce pain in the body. He shows how stress and suppressed anger manifest in physical conditions that cause pain, and he has helped thousands of people overcome pain without any medical intervention. I read his book, and using his techniques I essentially eliminated my wrist pain. I now type as much as I want and don’t restrict my activities, and I experience only occasional, fleeting pain. Pain does not affect my life in any significant way anymore. I highly recommend Dr. Sarno’s books. His second book, The Mindbody Prescription, addresses other sources of pain and illness.

It can be very difficult to explain this concept to people who are in pain, because no one wants to hear “it’s all in your head.” It sounds too much like “you’re making it up” or “it’s your fault.” And doctors treating pain conditions have reinforced the belief that the body is the source of pain, because it is broken in some way. This increases the fear of causing additional damage, by attributing pain to structural variations that are usually normal age-related changes, such as bulging discs and arthritis. But studies have shown that many issues that are blamed for chronic pain are just as common in asymptomatic people (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4464797/). A study of 3110 asymptomatic individuals at a range of ages found:

“Imaging findings of spine degeneration are present in high proportions of asymptomatic individuals, increasing with age. Many imaging-based degenerative features are likely part of normal aging and unassociated with pain.”

All pain is perceived through the brain and is very real. However, the perception of pain is greatly influenced by our level of fear and our perception of the situation. Pain is as much a response to the fear of damage than it is to any actual damage to the body. People who believe that a treatment will cure their pain are much more likely to experience relief from it. The fact is that much of the pain we experience is due to learned neural pathways rather than tissue damage or structural abnormalities. And for those who believe that their pain has a psychological basis, it is far more likely that evidence-based psychological treatments will reduce or eliminate pain than many of the medical treatments for chronic pain conditions.

In 2020, I completed a training by the Pain Psychology Center in working with clients experiencing chronic pain. A relatively new pain treatment, called Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) was validated in a subsequent study at the University of Colorado. Many participants with longstanding chronic back pain experienced a complete recovery from their pain in four weeks of PRT treatment. You can read the peer-reviewed medical journal article here, or a Washington Post article summarizing the findings here.

PRT includes cognitive and behavioral strategies to overcome pain and other chronic symptoms. PRT can help clients overcome the fear of the pain or symptoms and enable them to resume ordinary activities and greatly diminish or even permanently eliminate their symptoms. PRT includes mindfulness techniques can help calm the nervous system to reduce pain perception and increase a sense of safety in the body. 

Pain and other chronic symptoms, as awful as they may be, can be serving many purposes in our lives. They can give us permission to take a break, rest, and take care of ourselves, or get support and care from others. They distracts us from thoughts and emotions that we find unacceptable or inconvenient to address. They can fill our lives with doctors appointments and treatments that allow us to avoid figuring out what we truly need in order to be happy and fulfilled. Truly believing that our bodies are strong and resilient and refusing to let pain or symptoms rob us of activities we enjoy can allow clients to take back control of their lives and not be a victim any longer.   

Take a test to see if your chronic pain or symptoms are likely treatable using a mind-body approach

References:

  1. Sarno, M.D., John E. Healing Back Pain: The Mind-Body Connection. New York, NY: Warner Books, 1991.
  2. Sarno, M.D., John E. The Mindbody Prescription: Healing the Body, Healing the Pain. New York, NY: Warner Books, 1998.
  3. Published online 2014 Nov 27. doi: 10.3174/ajnr.A4173

 

Good Faith Estimate Notice

You have the right to receive a “Good Faith Estimate” explaining how much your medical and mental health care will cost.

Under the No Surprises Act, health care providers need to give clients who don’t have insurance or who are not using insurance an estimate of the expected charges for medical services, including psychotherapy services. 

You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency healthcare services, including psychotherapy services. You can ask your health care provider, and any other provider you choose, for a Good Faith Estimate before you schedule a service.

Meri Levy, LMFT is an out-of-network provider and therefore is required to provider a Good Faith Estimate and to inform you that lower cost care may be available through an in-network provider.

If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate, you can dispute the bill. Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate.

For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises.

Chronic Pain is Surprisingly Treatable – When Patients Focus on the Brain

A recent study, published in JAMA Psychiatry, demonstrated that a novel psychotherapy technique, Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) is highly effective at reducing or completely eliminating chronic back pain (average duration 11 years). Find out more about this study in this Washington Post article, or read the original medical journal article here. Another study shows the benefits of a similar form of psychological treatment for chronic pain here. I am trained in PRT and have found it to be very helpful for clients with chronic pain, as well as other stress-related symptoms such as migraine, vertigo, nausea, TMJ dysfunction, tinnitus, interstitial cystitis and irritable bowel syndrome,

Take a test to see if your chronic pain is likely treatable using a mind-body approach

Motherhood During COVID

Mothers have faced so many intense challenges during the COVID pandemic, including bearing the brunt of childcare and schooling responsibilities and the difficult decisions weighing the risk of exposure against all other priorities. Here’s a link to a recent article I published on Monarch about these challenges:

https://meetmonarch.com/health-resources/articles/motherhood-during-covid

Need Support? PSI is there to help!

Postpartum Support International is now offering even more online support meetings for pregnant and postpartum moms isolated at home. Check out the link below to find out more or to sign up.

https://www.postpartum.net/get-help/psi-online-support-meetings/

Take a test to see if you have Prenatal or Postpartum Depression